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Introduction
Messages.Aswetalkedabouttheimportanceofthesender,there-
ceiverandthefinalmessage,theroleofcommunicationinlifeis
asvitalaswater.Andjustlikeallthewaterbodies,communicationhas
animportantpartcalled(firstimpressions’
.
Justlikeappearances,firstimpressionsincommunicationcanbe
life-changingorlife-damping.Believeitornot,thereareallsortsof
emotionsrunningthroughthebodywhenyouaremeetingsomeone
forthefirsttimeortheotherwayaround.Teappreciation,respect,
jovialnessandtheanticipationarejustpurelyphenomenal.Itisthe
sheerfeelingwhichsurmountseverythingelseandwefeelfreshinspi-
rationsandgoalsthatareassociatedwiththisfirstimpression.
Butasanythingelseinlife,firstimpressionstoocanbethetotalop-
positeofwhatwetalkedaboutabove.Teycanbeharmfultosome-
one,deceivingforsomeothers,andthatinteractioncouldjustmakethe
mattersworse.Butwhyisthat?Whyisitthatsomepeoplecanmake
greatfirstimpressionswhileotherscanjustmakeacreepypastaoutof
it?Andtheonlyansweris:Communication.
Teemotionalthinkingwhichistoprotectusfromtheexternal
pressurescanplayamonumentalroleinthedevelopmentofourcom-
munication.Ouregotooisguardedbytheverysamenotionasemo-
tionsareanactiveparticipantinourbodies.
Tus,self-controlcanleadtoabetterutilisationofemotionsand
alsoprotectourego,makingussteerourselvesinourlife,incommu-
nicationandmakegreatfirstimpressions.Butthingsarenotsosimple
astheyseem.Ashumans,weinteractwithmoreemotionsthanlogic,
judgingotherpeopleandthesituationstheyarein.
Forus,everythingisjustamatterofthemoment,thevesteddesire
toprovidecomforttoonlyourselvesandnotothers.Tisbringsup
somequestionstoponderabout.Whyhavewebecomesoempty?Why
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