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TheValue-OrientedMeaningoftheFamily…
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Thefamily-relateddebatesarenowadayspublicdisputesconcerning
theconstructionofsocietyandthesphereofcommonlysharedvalues.
Theseelementsareindispensableinordertoseebeyondthehorizonof
thepresentday
.Whenconcludinghisanalysesconcerningthetransfor-
mationofcontemporaryfamilies,AnthonyGiddenspostulatesthatthe
futureoffamiliesdependsonapersonalabilitytoprovidea“golden
means”balancebetweenindividualautonomyandinterpersonalobliga-
tionsarisingfromthefactofhavingafixedrelationship.48
Familycanberegardedasastablefoundationofsociallife.Hence,
itislittlewonderthatthediminutionoffamiliesisnotconduciveto
anyattemptstoconstructsocialorder.Concurrently
,thelackoffamily-
groundedsupportforpoliticaltransformationsthattakeplaceinthe
contemporaryPolandcreatesmentalbarriersthathindertheirsocietal
acceptance.Thesetransformations,consequently
,willbeperceivedinthe
lightofpossibleorrealunemployment,lossofsocialprivileges,deep-
eningstratification,ordimcultexpectationsthatenforceradicalchanges
inone’spersonality
.Itissumcientenoughtolistentocasualconversa-
tionsinordertodiscerngroupsofdissatisfiedpeoplewhoyearnforthe
realityofthePeople’sRepublicofPolandandtreatitasadepositoryof
lostchancesandunfulfilleddreamsorsuccesses.Hence,itisourduty
tohealPolishfamiliesandprotectthemagainsttheconditionsof“axi-
ologicalwarpedness”byimplementingwiseculturalandsocialpolicies.
Threatstofamiliesare,asamatteroffact,threatstohumanbeingsand,
consequently
,tothewholesocietyseenasamacrostructure.Axiologi-
calconsensuswillbeconditionedbytheextenttowhichfamily-based
moralsocializationaccentuatestheethosofpersonalismwhichiscommu-
nal,altruistic,aswellasindiferenttoegocentrism,selfishness,relativism
andfashionable,postmoderntendenciestowardsindividualizationand
subjectivism.
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“Thecommunityvaluesareresponsibleforthepotential
ofsocialself-organization,theabilitytoperformactionsthatreachwell
beyondtheperimeteroffamiliarindividuals,beyondthetemporalper-
spectiveofourgrandchildrenandgrandgrandchildren(mostpeopleare
notfamiliarwiththeirowngrandgrandchildren).Powerexercisedupon
theworldofvaluesistheauthorityexertedoverthetemporalperspective.
Conflictedandfragmentedcommunitiesareunabletoexecutelong-term
projectswhosebenefitscanbepostponed.Theabilitytoconstructlong-
termbenefitsisapillarofourcivilization”(AndrzejZybertowicz).
48A.GiddeNs:Sociology…
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K.OlbRycHt:Prawda,dobroipięknowwychowaniuczłowiekajakoosoby.
Katowice2002;J.MaRiański:“Rodzinaaprzekazwartościmoralnych.”In:Rodzina.
Społeczeństwo.GospodarkaRynkowa.Ed.J.KRoszel.Opole1995.